Venus, Goddess of Love.
Venus rules over what we place value on and what in our lives bring us pleasure. Venus aids in developing our tastes, preferences, pleasures, and what makes us happy.
The position of Venus in our chart shows us how we approach relationships of the heart, and what brings us joy in those relationships. Venus also shows us our preferences when it comes to what we spend our money on, as Venus rules over Taurus and Libra equally.
With Venus we find our desire to be appreciated and to appreciate that which gives us pleasure, such as the arts, romance, beauty, money, entertainment, leisure, and comfort.
When lean in to our Venus, we find ourselves compromising and lovingly being the peace-keeper. On the flip side, we can be self-indulgent, self-centered, vain, and superficial.
Venus Placements
Where is your Venus in your chart? Let's take a look at what Venus in each sign can mean for you and your romantic relationships:
Venus in Aries
Those with Venus in Aries can approach others in an up-front, direct, and even daring way. They try to win others over by showing off their adventurous and ambitious side. They may come off as self-centered, boasting as a way of flirting, but some may find this tactic attractive and charismatic. People can be drawn to Venus is Aries' childlike, fun-loving charm.
Venus in Aries must keep things fresh, though. They will not suffer through a relationship that feels stale or boring.
Venus in Taurus
Those with Venus in Taurus place importance on physical comfort and will reflect that in their surroundings. They are themselves sensible and comfortable and will need consistency and loyalty in their relationships.
Their need for consistency may make them appear to become too settled, or too comfortable. And while they may resist change in those relationships, remember, it is their way to express their love in terms of stability and steadfastness. Venus in Taurus will do best with a patient partner, willing to keep things simple and natural.
Venus in Gemini
Venus in Gemini people will attempt to impress others with entertaining conversation that allows them to show off how much they "know" as well as their assorted interests and hobbies. They may come off light-hearted, cheerful, and flirtatious.
Venus in Gemini may resist any relationship they fear will become too boring and comfortable. They want that light-hearted attitude to continue through they romantic relationships, and do not want to be tied down. After all, their tastes can change so quickly, they need to keep things ever changing and fun.
Venus in Cancer
Venus in Cancer show their love by caring for you. They want a solid relationship that they feel safe in, so they will pay attention to your feelings and attempt to take care of you emotionally. They feel best when the relationship is committed and dependable. They are not afraid of emotional confrontations, feeling that healing emotional wounds in the relationship will shore up that foundation.
They may retreat into themselves at times, or resort to pouting to get attention. They crave snuggling and sappiness, and will be discouraged by any attention they feel is too impersonal.
Venus in Leo
Those with Venus in Leo need to feel special, they need to be wooed and enjoy wooing in return. They are loyal and will flourish when showered with romantic attention. They may be boastful, sharing the number of heads they turned that day, but they are just bragging, trying to impress you. They may also try to impress with extravagant gifts and promises.
Venus Leos will be turned off by indifferent or impersonal behavior, they may bail if they feel the relationship has lost it's spark. They may need constant reminders of your affection for them, and they may act out if they feel you are not giving them what they need.
Venus in Virgo
Venus in Virgo are dedicated to their relationships, putting in the hard work to make the relationship last. They are devoted and will pay attention to small details about their partner.
They need to feel safe in their relationships, often taking their time to learn everything about their potential mate before making a romantic move. They need to feel confident in themselves before putting their heart out. They may become upset if they feel their partner isn't appreciating all that they do for them.
Venus in Libra
Venus in Libra will treat their partners fairly, they may even acquiesce aspects of their own lives to accommodate their partner. They will strive for balance in the relationship, attempt to impress with their kindness and willingness to compromise. They will want to share everything with their partners.
Things will turn sour if a Venus in Libra feels things are unfair in their relationship, they may put up with it for a while, but ultimately it will turn them away from their partner.
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in Scorpio people seem confident and courageous when it comes to romantic relationships. They exude commitment and loyalty. They have an intensity about them that suggests they are full of strong emotion. Their partners wantonly feel possessed by Venus in Scorpio.
Venus in Scorpio may seem a little too intense, however, especially if their partner is looking for something more casual. Their commitment may be so intense that it clouds the fun in the relationship, causing both parties to become unhappy. Loving a Venus in Scorpio can be a strenuous experience.
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in Sagittarius people are explorers, they don't commit and settle as readily as other may. They want to develop and expand their horizons, learn new things, and grow and they want a partner willing to experience things with them. Someone to grow with them.
They are restless and may cut and run when things get too tough for them to deal with. They do not do well being stuck in a rut, or when things get dull, they need to move, expand. They need adventure.
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in Capricorn people will woo their potential partner by showing off their goal-oriented, bright, and calculating ways. They are responsible, capable, proficient and level headed, and want their partner to know that and to be attracted to that.
They prefer others who are serious and also goal-oriented. They are traditional and willing to commit, though they may not outwardly express their love in obvious ways, making them seem a bit cool-hearted. Deep down, however, they have romantic spirits and long for someone with whom they can share their life.
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in Aquarius want to be seen as rare, rebellious, and a little exciting. They want their partner to know they don't stick to the path most taken in matter of the heart, they forge their own path. They are attracted to unconventional romances, they don't follow traditional "rules."
They can appear aloof and indifferent at times, and they will avoid emotional displays at all costs. They will seek out a partner in whom they can also find a good friend.
Venus in Pisces
Venus in Pisces people are not ones for planning ahead, choosing more to "feel" their way through their relationships. They are sensitive people, drawn to those they feel are in need of their help. Their love is unconditional and directed at the inside of their partner, not the façade they feel is directed at the world.
They do not commit easily, finding it difficult to stop exploring the world they have romanticized in their minds. They are always on the look out for someone to save.
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